where are you?

Heather | Day by Day by... | Monday, 19 March 2007

        they looked for you today – they found the same room you had two weeks ago but it seemed as though no-one was home. all i can do is pray you return by next week. the doctor said “sorry” after she couldn’t find you. it’s hard to stay positive after that, but i’m going to try my best to still hope. また来週ね。

the waiting is the hardest part

Heather | Day by Day by... | Saturday, 17 March 2007

            I assume this is the dilemma for most women who find out they’re pregnant – to tell or not to tell. Sometimes I wish we could’ve been the kind of couple who just let nature take its course and were surprised to find after 2.5 months that I’m pregnant! Then I would only have a couple of weeks to keep it under wraps. (more…)

jumping the gun

Heather | Day by Day by... | Monday, 05 March 2007

February 25th (more…)

endearing neediness

Heather | Day by Day by... | Friday, 23 February 2007

my husband has been my hero this week.

we were fighting all the previous week. then i got sick. (more…)

fuck pcos

Heather | Day by Day by... | Friday, 23 February 2007

this was the title of a recently encountered blog on the web. i can relate. (more…)

引きこもりとパラサイト・シングル

Heather | Japan | Monday, 27 November 2006

Hikikomori (Recluse) and Parasite Single

My mom just sent me an NPR link about these two types of people in Japan today. As I read it, I couldn’t help but think about my husband who describes his younger brother in much the same way as this article describes these very troubled late teen to mid-life (mostly) male Japanese. His brother committed suicide on his 18th birthday.

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お久しぶり 

Heather | Day by Day by... | Saturday, 25 November 2006

Yes…it’s been a long time.

But here I am…motivated to write from the most embarrassing of stimuli.

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happy day to…

Heather | Day by Day by... | Friday, 03 March 2006

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kindergarten flashbacks

Heather | Day by Day by... | Friday, 03 March 2006

Our friendly neighbors accosted me on the way home from the gym yesterday and insisted I join their Hina Matsuri (Doll’s Festival) celebration at their apartment. Thinking it so sweet of her to think of inviting me but feeling guilty that I didn’t have anything to offer or bring (last min notice and I had to be at work in an hour) – I couldn’t decline. (more…)

ultra bide

Heather | Day by Day by... | Thursday, 02 March 2006

Sunday February 26th show – Helluva Lounge (more…)

lately

Heather | Day by Day by... | Thursday, 02 March 2006

big beers, rainy days, horse sashimi… (more…)

wanna see our new place?

Heather | Day by Day by... | Wednesday, 15 February 2006

Happy belated Valentine’s Day to all! We’re moved – pics here! (more…)

Moving AGAIN!!!

Heather | Day by Day by... | Wednesday, 08 February 2006

When will it end!?! I have yet to live in one dwelling for more than 4 years! You’d think I’d be an expert by now but my house looks something like this and the movers come tomorrow afternoon! (more…)

Decisions Decisions – Advice please?

Heather | Day by Day by... | Thursday, 02 February 2006

I have definitely had an eclectic career. Making me a jack-of-all trades and master of none…which can be either good or bad. I have had interviews but mostly I was referred to the position from someone in the know and had an edge that way. The position I’m in currently is completely new to me (more…)

ebony & ivory…

Heather | Day by Day by... | Sunday, 29 January 2006

would this even be legal in the states!?! (more…)

Finally!!

Heather | Day by Day by... | Wednesday, 25 January 2006

An interview!! Friday!! (more…)

I did it!

Heather | Day by Day by... | Monday, 16 January 2006

I joined a Japanese Health Club! (more…)

A little late but, Happy 2006!

Heather | Day by Day by... | Wednesday, 11 January 2006

Reflections on last year… (more…)

hell week

Heather | Day by Day by... | Monday, 12 December 2005

is finally over. i made it through the Japanese Language Proficiency Test Level 2 (9:30-2:30) and YWCA finals (9:30-3:30 day 1, and 9:30-1pm day 2). i don’t know if i’m any better for it but it certainly took a lot outta me with everything else going on. what do they say about this season in japan – busier than a buddhist monk running? exactly – and i haven’t even started on the holiday stuff yet – that comes after the last day of school on friday! (all friends and family abroad should note this accordingly) (more…)

No Joke – Greenhouse Gases are Threatening our World

Heather | I'm afraid I can't help it | Monday, 28 November 2005

“The impact of spiralling pollution on the planet poses a threat to civilisation just as catastrophic as much-vaunted weapons of mass destruction, Britain’s top scientist [Robert May, president of the country’s leading scientific body, the Royal Society] warned on Monday.” Hindustan Times (more…)